Friday, March 7, 2014

How to Keep Calm and Carry On



Q. Are you going to make mistakes as you learn a second language?

A. Is the Pope Catholic?





My favorite part of the video is that he handled it like a pro. He literally did not even blink. He corrected the error, and kept speaking. Speaking of errors in high places, remember George W. Bush having issues with his native language?  And let’s not forget that Barack Obama choked during the oath of office. Speaking a foreign language might make you hyper sensitive to your mistakes, but you probably haven't paid much attention to how often you slip up in your native language. It happens! And people probably aren't judging you for it like you are judging yourself. 

The fear of these mistakes can wake up in new ways as you grow in a language, and as your opportunities to use it increase. If you let it, that fear will undo all the progress you make studying. Fear will send you back to where you started out. The only way forward is to accept mistakes as part of the process. Have a strategy (or strategery) in mind. You have lots of options: Correct yourself. Apologize if necessary. Do nothing and keep going. Laugh. But remember, it’s not a big deal if you don’t make it a big deal.

Embarrassing mistakes happen to the best of us. Many leaders have made hilarious, humiliating errors on the world stage that will be memorialized forever on YouTube. They kept going because they have bigger things on their minds, like wars, economies, and policies. These errors are small things. As for the Pope, I’d love to know if he had a good laugh about this later. I have a feeling he might have.